How do I know if a guy is interested?
1. He asks for my phone number.
2. He takes me out to dinner and a movie.
3. He buys me little gifts.
4. He makes plans to take me on a holiday with him.
5. He asks what it would take to be my boyfriend.
Usually it's easy to figure out guys, when they're the ones having crushes on me but when it's the other way round, I can't make head or tail of whether I am getting a correct response or not.
So, there's this guy, let's call him A. I only got to know him recently and we sort of hit it off really well as friends. Initially I had some suspicions that he may be interested in me as well but now, I'm not so sure. I kind of let out that I was interested in him and we sort of agreed to take things slow and all that... but really, I'm tired of being uncertain and I'm tired of being paranoid that he's only doing things just to 'give me a chance'.
But he calls me everyday. And sometimes he asks me out to join him and his friends to dinner. We e-mail or text each other once in a while.
I've been holding everything in just because people are telling me I'm taking things too fast and that it's wrong for a girl to act in such situations. I'd rather get it over with and be disappointed before my hopes get up so I could concentrate on my work, really.
It's just been two weeks.
Two weeks is too long, now that I think about it.
- Mood:
contemplative


Comments
Go give him more obvious sign, or so it the man way - say it out :p
and to think, all those years of saying "i like you" - totally unnecessary.
just one guy's opinion, of course. give in another 2 more weeks. if things don't work out try carry a spare pair of panties in your purse just incase you see someone cute. hee.